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The Gift of Forgiveness

Lessons come on four legs so often, if we pay attention, we just might learn a thing or two. Lessons can also be wrapped up in the form of a gift. Since this is ‘tis the season, this is my gift, or lesson that I choose to share today.

mercedes1bMercedes getting lots of loveVolunteers of Taysia Blue Rescue saved sweet fourteen year old Mercedes a few weeks ago. She had lived on a chain, outside never knowing the comforts of home and the love that my dogs certainly know. She was skin and bones to the point that the images that I saw caused me to burst in to tears. What I find so amazing is that Mercedes harbors no ill feelings toward people. Her foster home reports that she is full of sweetness and love and even a little sass in the form of an emphatic “woo”.

Forgiveness.

mercedes2bMercedes giving love in returnDogs are masters at it and yet humans tend to be really awful at it.

Mahatma Gandhi said that “The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. writes, “We must develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love. There is some good in the worst of us and some evil in the best of us”

Dogs seem to understand that. If only humans could forgive like dogs, the world would be a better place. In the last eight years of working around rescue dogs, I probably have said that at least several hundred times.

danbee1Last January a video went viral on social media. It was the image of a cowering, emaciated dog in the back of a dark and dirty cage. This dog had been raised to be butchered for food, but lucky for her, the butcher’s property had been raided; the remaining dogs on the property were saved. The woman responsible for saving these dogs, and literally hundreds of others, made one last pass at the empty kennels. Movement caught her eye and she took a few steps back and there she was, a terrified Malamute mix hiding in fear.

We’ve all seen videos of rescues and situations and we pass them around for inspiration or as an alert. We don’t believe that we will necessarily find ourselves involved, certainly not from the other side of the world. That same day the video spread across social media, I received a text from my husband that read: “Don’t be mad, but I’m saving a dog from Korea”.

I was initially pretty upset. I was at our local shelter evaluating a dog that needed our help. I am a very vocal advocate of saving the dogs in our region first. This was something that I would not be able to explain or justify. Luckily before I responded to him I took a breath as I recalled the hundreds of dogs that had fostered in our home, the hours of family time that I had given away for the sake of the rescue and the dogs. Never once had he complained, never once did he say “no”. The next text came: “Don’t worry, I’m raising the money myself, this won’t be a burden to the rescue”.

danbee2Danbee Marie has slowly progressed over the months. She plays and romps with our other dogs and literally bounds and bounces her way to my husband for belly rubs. She is still wary of strangers, she will still run and hide if someone pulls out a metal instrument like scissors or clippers. She has fear inside of her that might never go away. She witnessed cruelty and horrific acts at the hands of humans and yet she is happy to see us. She demonstrates forgiveness very day.
We don’t really need stories like Mercedes or Danbee to see the lessons that they teach; look no further than your own furry friends.

danbee3Many of us leave our dogs and go to work every day. They don’t know where we are going or when we will return, but every time, they are happy to see us. They forgive us for being human, for being forgetful, for being self-indulgent. They forgive. They move forward.

Birgit Klein, in her book, The Eternal Spiral of Life, writes, “The human being in the contact with the dog will become more and more tolerant, indulgent, and most of all grateful and able to forget grudge and projections of the past.”

When a dog develops a bond, it means something to them and your dog will not be the one to break it. A second chance is something that we all would benefit from this Holiday Season and a second chance is a gift that we should all commit to giving, perhaps most importantly to ourselves.

My wish this Holiday season is that we all take a lesson, in this case, a gift, from the four-legged teachers.

danbee4Danbee wishes you a Merry Christmas!

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